The mystery that is the woman mind.

[Fazermint]

She was sitting next to me today again. I asked her if I could borrow a pencil and she smiled and said sure. Women are not complicated? Either you hate someone or you don't :O

(what kind of moron is this? he never brings neither paper nor pencils. what a doofus)

[Miss Prime Blue]

tay120n64 wrote:

I'm absolutely certain it was the way you asked. And women aren't complicated at all. At its core, psychology is psychology, and its more beneficial to know how an individual thinks regardless of gender.

Thank you! finally, someone gets it.

=]

[tay120n64]

Yeah. It was the way you asked the first time. It's not her who is weird, it was just the context of the given situation and the way in which you asked.

She is clearly indifferent to you if she smiled the second time. She does not dislike you, but she may either like you or be indifferent to you.

[Fazermint]

tay120n64 wrote:

Yeah. It was the way you asked the first time. It's not her who is weird, it was just the context of the given situation and the way in which you asked.

Well apparently. But did I deserve the ignore+coldness?

[SoulBlazerFan]

Fazermint wrote:

tay120n64 wrote: Yeah. It was the way you asked the first time. It's not her who is weird, it was just the context of the given situation and the way in which you asked. Well apparently. But did I deserve the ignore+coldness?

Well, what exactly did you say to her?

"May I please have a piece of paper?"

Or, what would probably give you a deserved dirty look....

"Gimme some of that paper, biotch."

<<? Inquiring minds want to know.

[tay120n64]

He said "Can I have one too?" right after someone else had asked her for a piece.

[psychokind]

I still believe in my "wrong t-shirt" idea

[Fazermint]

"Can I have one, too?" , yeah. Simple, yet effective (in normal occasions).

Normal people wouldn't be bothered by it, I'm sure.

[tay120n64]

It would have annoyed me, but I wouldn't have made a big deal about it.

[Fazermint]

You sure you're not a woman, tay?

Well, I shouldn't bash women because this one individual acted weird. It's like you said, tay :}

[tay120n64]

Fazermint wrote:

You sure you're not a woman, tay?

Hold on, let me check...

[Kirbyarm]

I can comply that knowledge of psychology would of course help someone understand why she possibly reacted the way she did, however... it is silly to deny that women in 9 cases out of ten, aren't able to stabilize their emotions when they are annoyed, upset, or hurt. It's not always a bad thing, in fact we'd live in a very boring world if we were all careless without any kind of extra emotional expression, I'm just saying I doubt you'll find a guy who'd react like that in this situation.

He'd either say. "Okay, f*** you, get your own paper" or something about not having any or otherwise that you can have one. Very little emotional involvement at all. Mostly testosterone versus nobility.

[Fazermint]

Kirbyarm wrote:

I can comply that knowledge of psychology would of course help someone understand why she possibly reacted the way she did, however... it is silly to deny that women in 9 cases out of ten, aren't able to stabilize their emotions when they are annoyed, upset, or hurt. It's not always a bad thing, in fact we'd live in a very boring world if we were all careless without any kind of extra emotional expression, I'm just saying I doubt you'll find a guy who'd react like that in this situation. He'd either say. "Okay, f*** you, get your own paper" or something about not having any or otherwise that you can have one. Very little emotional involvement at all. Mostly testosterone versus nobility.

I think I'd prefer "Okay, f*** you, get your own paper"... XD

[psychokind]

I'd fucking love that boring world