What Do Girls Really Want?

Jason Tandro · Thu Mar 29, 2007 4:53 pm

Because I swear to God, I have no idea anymore!

Hammerit · Posted: Thu Mar 29, 2007 5:13 pm Post subject:

hm I dun have a clue either lol ... never had a gf and most probably never will ... so I guess you're asking the wrong one lol.

Blade · Posted: Thu Mar 29, 2007 5:30 pm Post subject:

Hammerit wrote:hm I dun have a clue either lol ... never had a gf and most probably never will ... so I guess you're asking the wrong one lol.

Girls want guys with selfesteem, even the biggest nerds can score as long as they dont talk about games and shower.

I have proof of that.

Hammerit · Posted: Thu Mar 29, 2007 6:24 pm Post subject:

Blade wrote:Girls want guys with selfesteem, even the biggest nerds can score as long as they dont talk about games and shower.

Yeah that's the problem. Due to ADHD I'm sorta anti-social ... I never had any friends, buddies or whatever at all. I spend the whole 12 years of school by talking to noone 'xcept a few ppl that nerved me or whatever. I never was on a party, nor do I suit into the common 18-year-old role (since I don't drink, don't smoke, and hate most the party-sorta-music. I've got nothing to talk about 'xcept the things I know of. And that's a damn lot of science stuff, computers, algorithmic thinking asoasf. It's just like I wasn't meant to have a private-life. I mean I don't have any real emotions, I've got no experience in social-interaction, I'm shy like shit and occasions for me to leave my home are extremely rare (since I'm the last to be informed if theres something up since noone knows me). Even my "family" has no clue of who I really am ... so I guess it's my fate to die alone.

Freedan · Posted: Thu Mar 29, 2007 10:36 pm Post subject:

I used to think it was looks that was most important, but that was when I was single. For the past couple of years, I've had a gf, so that shoots that theory all to hell.

To be honest, I can't figure it out.

Zhetty · Posted: Fri Mar 30, 2007 5:12 am Post subject:

Maybe it's time one girl posted in this thread. (Even though there's none of us on the interweb. Humbug)...

Basically, it all comes down to personality. I'd be with a 'loser' as long as he's a compassionate, funny, and has intelligence / substance in his thinking. A guy with grey matter is a necessity.

What I hate is an overconfident and annoyingly machismo idiot that needs to get kicked in the nuts and prevented from procreating.

But eh. That's just my opinion.

chicken · Posted: Fri Mar 30, 2007 10:21 am Post subject:

hard to tell what girls really want... i think some want this, and others that... and again others some of it all

well, there ARE different kind of chicks, same as men, you cannot ask "what do men want"

.... well if i think about it, mostly boobies

Hammerit · Posted: Fri Mar 30, 2007 3:31 pm Post subject:

chicken wrote:.... well if i think about it, mostly boobies

Boobies alone dun make the world go around xD

Yeah most girls define men as uber-machismo, selfish beings that have only one thing in mind: the "f" word. That's funny since I actually know a load of women that actually hit this sorta definition too. So it gotta be hard to find a thing all gurls'n'guys want.

Flamez · Posted: Sat Mar 31, 2007 2:07 am Post subject:

a hard question indeed, i know the awnser to "what dont girls want?" though, that being me

Blade · Posted: Sat Mar 31, 2007 10:01 am Post subject:

They want different type of guys on different occasions/times...

And not all the typical-18-years-old-things like smoking, drinking etc. are bad, f.ex. I don't drink because everyone drinks, I drink because I want to, because I like the taste of beer/etc., and I only drink when it "fits".

I usually don't smoke like all the addicts, but if it comes to taste, I may make exceptions.

Drinking/smoking/trying to hit on girls is part of what I want, thats why I do it.I can have fun without drinking/etc., but its "different fun".

Muerte · Posted: Mon Apr 02, 2007 2:51 am Post subject:

Hammerit wrote:Yeah that's the problem. Due to ADHD I'm sorta anti-social ... I never had any friends, buddies or whatever at all. I spend the whole 12 years of school by talking to noone 'xcept a few ppl that nerved me or whatever. I never was on a party, nor do I suit into the common 18-year-old role (since I don't drink, don't smoke, and hate most the party-sorta-music. I've got nothing to talk about 'xcept the things I know of. And that's a damn lot of science stuff, computers, algorithmic thinking asoasf. It's just like I wasn't meant to have a private-life. I mean I don't have any real emotions, I've got no experience in social-interaction, I'm shy like shit and occasions for me to leave my home are extremely rare (since I'm the last to be informed if theres something up since noone knows me). Even my "family" has no clue of who I really am ... so I guess it's my fate to die alone.

Wow, you sound like me ... except I've never bothered to find out whether I have ADHD or not, also you sound smarter.

Hammerit · Posted: Mon Apr 02, 2007 5:02 am Post subject:

Muerte wrote:Wow, you sound like me ... except I've never bothered to find out whether I have ADHD or not, also you sound smarter.

If you're like me, but don't have ADHD there's only one other psychic disorder explaining one like me ... and that's called borderline personality. ADHD ppl tend to drug abuse, since it somehow makes us feel normal ('though I'm clean since I was born and didn't even take the ritalin from the doctor) ... or to loneliness, coz we think different, feel different and act different than those not having ADHD and it tells and so makes contact between hunters (ADHD) and farmers (no ADHD) hard.

The Symptoms telling a doctor that you're a hunter are uncontrolled hyperactivity, easy disatraction by sounds, voices aso, problems in social interaction, problems at school, or extreme easy school passing (I for example never had any folders, nor did I learn, but still was able to pass highschool with "good" at the end coz I was interested in most things the teachers tried to teach us), the tunnel-effect (an effect of total emotionlessness in which an ADHD person fully concentrates on a certain topic), general emotionlessness or problems on identification of several emotions, IQ around 130 in normal and around 145 in concentration mode (mine is 128(n)-147(c) for example) and an unusually high productivity and tranqility in stressful situations. Because most hunters are never given a chance to integrate into normal social life we also tend to personality disorders or other psychic disorders.

You can't infect with or otherwise get ADHD all of a sudden since the illness consists of two components: the genetic component which causes a defect in the dopamin metabolism and the psychic component which is "triggered" by a lack of attention, love aso in childhood. That's why ADHD can suddenly break out in the family that had no breakout for ages, since it needs the psychic component to "activate".

Manibrandr System · Posted: Fri Apr 06, 2007 12:23 am Post subject:

Me, I prefer to go with people with a striking personality. That always gets to me and makes me inclined to stick with that person through hard times.

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