Yes, I say there are aliens out there. It's a big universe out there; and not just the small kind of big, but really big. Out of all the planets, galaxies, and moons that are surely out there, I'm pretty sure there's something smarter than us.
Are aliens good or evil? Probably depends. Just like people, there are probably those that are capable of either. But just like we can't generalize our own species and say people are good or bad, we can't make a blanket statement for aliens.
As for the stories of people being abducted and probed, I call BS. Those stories usually come out of small cities/states where nothing ever happens, so people are willing to make up anything to get their name heard. People like alien stories, and it sounds interesting to think that they want to learn about us. Why they would do that from sticking steel rods up someone's arse is beyond me.
If aliens are as advanced as they're always made out to be (they have interstellar vessels, after all), surely they have a way to research us covertly. You know, without the ass probing.
So yes, there's probably other intelligent life out there. Whether they actually want to meet us someday is anyone's guess, though; we're a confused species. We wage wars, discriminate and kill each other over the most trivial matters.
Not to mention a good number of us can't form sentences in our own language (AOL users

).